Kids in our relationship
Posted by: Questionableone on
December 01, 2010
I have been dating this guy for over a year. I have an 11 year old daughter who is used to having her mom all to herself. She was not used to doing chores so I've implemented that. I believe she is jealous because whenever he is around she acts out...I think it's cuz she has to share me now. My bf has expressed that I havent implemented enough chores and he refuses to come around when my daughter is with me. What do I do now?
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Kimmy says:
Yes, you are right. she is jealous. but it should have been expected. i think you should try making her understand that it's not only about her. it's also about you seeing as its mainly your life. and you should tell your partner to try supporting your child despite it all. if he truly loves you, he will. if not, then you need to do some serious thinking.
Kimmy says:
Yes, you are right. she is jealous. but it should have been expected. i think you should try making her understand that it's not only about her. it's also about you seeing as its mainly your life. and you should tell your partner to try supporting your child despite it all. if he truly loves you, he will. if not, then you need to do some serious thinking.
Eliza says:
Speaking as a grown woman who used to be the young daughter of a young, widowed mother who dated and then eventually married...your daughter is more important. I'm not saying you shouldn't have romantic love in your life, of course you should! However, if your boyfriend refuses to come around when you daughter is with you - cut your losses with him and move on. My father died when I was 11, that was hard. But then to have my mother act as though her love life was more important than me...that was much harder to come to terms with. Your daughter is 11, she's just a child. Maybe she does need more direction and rules and chores, fine. But your romantic partner should understand that with you comes your child, and in supporting you, he should just naturally support your child without question. It won't be easy to find someone like that, but they are out there. Keep looking! And LOVE your daughter!
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