Girls - please tell me
Posted by: Peterpan1317 on
November 23, 2010
I have been seeing this girl for 6 weeks. She says she likes me. She now has been given a job offer (applied before meeting me) which involves moving countries. She said before she met me, she would have taken it. BUt now she is not too sure, but she doesnt want us to proceed further because of this. Her reason for not being sure is meeting me. We have kissed but no sex on several occassions.
Question:
1. Is she just saying this to set up the inevitable break up
2. what should i do
READER COMMENTS
Josephine says:
Whenever a situation like this occurs, the best way to deal with it is to approach it like this: "you are a really kind and interesting person and it is too bad we didn't have more time to explore this relationship, but I dont want to hold you back from pursuing a possibly life-changing opportunity. let's just call this a learning experience for the both of us and move on"
when people miss an opportunity to stay with someone they have feelings for, those initial feellings of interests usually turn to regret later on. Unless you both are experiencing deep, profound feelings of connectedness and a strong mutual interest in each other, it is best to move along. you will both find someone else without the future regret.
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