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Why do men change moods so frequently?
Posted by: EmilyBrooke on November 16, 2010

I dont know whether its me, or whether he's got some tricks up his sleeves in the last couple of months, i have been with my man now for two years, and i love him like no other. But recently, one week he will be everything a girl never wants, leaves constantly, mean, not understanding, and acts like a completely different person, and then the next week it will be like we first started dating, and hes funny and taking me places,so in to me and cant keep his hands away. Dont get me wrong, hes always been a great guy, the chemistry has always been there and theres no doubt in mind that i have a future with this man, but i just want some insight if all men do this in long relationships, or am i just going to have to wait every other week for this amazing fun loving guy to come out?
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RS says:
Oh girl i think most of them like that too. my husband is the same i love him so much but then sometimes i dont know him at all cause he is so different but i am still trying. try talk to him when he is in good mood and explaine to him how you feel when these things happen and you will get some good answers

Thecheesecakeman says:
To be honest he could be just playing his cards. As a guy who's been kind of guilty of this as well... As guys, we are told to love our women, be nice to them and give them everything they want. While at the same time we should be total jerks to them because if we are "too good" to them, they will eventually lose interest and move onto a more "bad boy" type guy. With all this conflicting information I know a few guys who are naturally nice but have injected some "attitude" into their personae just to keep the girl guessing. We just aren't sure if you would get bored or not so we have to play the cards just right to keep you interested. He could be doing this too, by going back and forth from "good boy" to "don't care boy". It seems to be doing its job from this viewpoint. You are totally crazy for him and you are guessing what his motives are, hereby establishing the "mystery". Good job to him! This is my guess anyways.

Anna says:
Guys are bitchier, moodier and more miserable than most women. And that is one fact that most women's health magazines, man-bashing feminist critiques and general social conditioning will never tell you. The problem: we're allowed, at least, to talk about it. They're not.



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