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Feeling Alone
Posted by: Tay1234 on June 26, 2010

Me and my ex were together for over a year. he was sweet, kind and we both were respectful to each other. we have never ever had a fight, we just got along and let things slide. So when I found out he was cheating on me I never really fully confronted him, I just said a few things to let him know that I knew and thought he would had enough respect for me stop.in the end I just stop talking to him and never said anything about it. I thought he would call me back and try to fix things but he hasn't. Instead, he just acts like our relationship never happened and he is happier than ever. I even caught him on Facebook flirting with other women and supposedly engaged now. I was starting to question did I even matter to him. He moved on but I can't. I based my whole life on him and now hes gone i have nothing. I felt like a fool and realize looking back all the signs were there. He never called that much,or came over, and was always busy. I don't have any friends and my family could careless. I don't know what to do with myself but cry to myself. I tried dating again but it just made things worst because I just got rejected twice and it seems no one likes me or want me.I don't know what to do and i need advice or guidance.
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I know the feeling, my ex and I were together for 2.5 years before she cheated on me. I took her back and she left me half a year later for some guy that she thrilled with. Like you, I had nothing, she was my whole life. It's not impossible to move on, just really really hard. Find something new to do, join a club or team, start hanging out in different places, get out of the house, even just to walk aimlessly around. In short, you need a change of scenery. If he was your whole life, then you need something new in your life that won't remind you of him. Try not to focus too much on dating again, rebounds rarely end well. meet new people, make new friends, and another guy will come along.



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