Can You Forgive a Cheater?
Posted by: Dropsofjupiter on
June 21, 2010
I found out my boyfriend of a year and a half slept with someone else. It was his best friend who told me. It was a month ago and I broke up with him right away. But I can't seem to stop thinking about him and he's been messaging me a lot ever since about how he's sorry and he misses me. Part of me wants to go back to him but I don't know if it's worth it. To make things worse, I started seeing his best friend, nothing serious just having some fun. But now wanting to forgive my ex that puts me right in the middle of both guys (which is my fault) but I never thought I'd miss my ex so much or want to find a way to forgive him after what he did. Should I or shouldn't I?
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Southern_Belle_87 says:
I would not take the ex back. In my experience, when someone cheats on you, it makes you wonder why you were not good enough for that person, and if you stay with that person, you can't help but wonder if it will happen again, so it puts a strain on your relationship and makes you feel like he can't be trusted.
Jake says:
No. If you do take him back, you will have a hard time trusting him completely. You'll always have a sort of paranoia or suspicion that he may be unfaithful again, even if he won't. That kind of mistrust in a relationship is pure poison. He messed up, he should bear the consequences. You seem more than capable of moving on, so finish the job and find someone better. you deserve it
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