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I Feel Like we are Drifting Apart. HELP!
Posted by: Blonde0917 on March 08, 2010

My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 9 years, recently he has claimed that i don't give him enough attention. However, when i do give him attention, he pushes me away. He hasn't given me any attention for a while now, and he has been talking to other girls on the phone and internet. He says he wants to work it out with me and he sees a future, but he does nothing to make me feel like he wants me. He ignores my advancements towards him and he hardly gives me boyfriend attention i have to either lean in for it or ask for it. What am i doing wrong?
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Bbcr says:
Sounds like you guys are going on an emotional power trip with each other all the time. You've been dating for nine years? Time to cut the crap and either grow up and be the first to end these games, or realise that you guys aren't really compatible, and move on to someone with whom you are both willing to be reciprocal. Its sounds like you're wasting each other's time at the moment.



MORE QUESTIONS:
Does he really like me?
I cant stop thinking about him
Why won't he ask me out?