Why Does My Ex Keep Trying to Marry my Best Friends?
Posted by: Rhonda on
March 01, 2010
My boyfriend of nine years suddenly broke up with me, saying ''we're not going to work''. Two years later he gets engaged to my cousin who happened to be one of my best friends. Due to the fact that they are complete opposites, they broke up three months later. Now he is attempting a relationship (potential engagement due to cultural reasons) with my best friend, who happens to know our relationship history. Still not over the pain of my cousin accepting his proposal, thinking that my best friend might accept his proposal is killing me. What should I do? Why is he doing this to me? And seriously, have all the girls disappeared from the world, leaving only the ones cloesest to me for him to be interested in? I will always have some love for him, but I wil never be back with him any day, but its the feeling of lack of self-worth that is breaking my heart. I am surrounded by a group of friends who love me, and a couple of guys who make me feel like im the greatest person in the world. Why does he make me feel the opposite? He makes me feel insignificant, worthless and non-existant.
Would confronting my friend ruin my self esteem, since she already knows how much he hurt me before? I will definately not confront him, but I really want to know why he's always intersted in those closest to me. By the way, my relationship with my cousin was really really close, now its demolished. This is really causing me a lot of stress that is affecting my school work (I'm a Law student). Is there any way i can just ignore all of this?
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Bbcr says:
Your "best friend" really doesn't sound like any kind of friend at all. If I were you, I would wake up and realise that this guy is trying to poison your mind and emotional self-worth by hitting on girls close to you because he himself has low self-esteem and confidence, what ever he may be trying to project. My advice? Cut them off and focus on those giving love back to you. In all honesty, it sounds like they truly deserve each other.
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