Does he like me or is he just teasing me?
Posted by: Luvluvmisty on
January 08, 2010
I met him about 10 years ago. I liked him but we were just friends. Then we didn't talk for over 5 years. Because I went back to my country. Last year suddenly we talked again on the messenger. We are talking about travel, music, movie and sex. He always tells me that making love with me would be nice if we do. I have told him I like him in the past and now. Sometimes I ask him if he teases me or not. He says never. He says we like each other obviously. We talk very often. When I met him, there were many girls around him so I gave up. But according him, he never got anyone from them. Now he doesn't have a girlfriend. I would like to trust him but I haven't seen him for a long time. I really like him and wanna be his partner. I know I must talk to him and get close to him first. What do you think he's just teasing me or likes me? Many guys are talking about sex to girls who they like? He always makes me laugh and happy. But also he makes me confuse.
READER COMMENTS
Eric72 says:
I agree with Ben. But to add, you'll never know unless you try. And everything we do in matters of the heart, always involves risk of getting hurt. Everyone has gone through this, and still do, so don't think that your alone in this. On the negative side, he just wanted to have sex with you, but don't you feel the same towards him as well? On the positive side, you guys hook up, he's not a player, and you guys make fireworks. Have fun, be safe, and good luck.
PEACHYKEEN says:
Have you ever read "HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU"?Give it a try and then maybe you'll figure him out,It wouldn't hurt, but just might help.
Just a thought!!
Best to and for you!!
Luvluvmisty says:
Thank you for your message. I'm not good at dealing with boys. I should be, but I can't. I think I have been asking him too much about everything recently and he seems he is uncomfortable..........I guess.
LOVER says:
This sounds like a movie, you guys will probably meet again and fall in love happily ever after. All you have to do is reconnect
Ben says:
Since your conversation has gone into the topic of sexual nature then I would say that both of you have taken it to the next level. However you don't seem uncomfortable when he talks about sex.
Do make a date with him but to end up in bed on the first date would be entirely up to you. You know he wants to.
My suggestion would be to take one day at the time and feel where it goes. Good luck.
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