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How do I get the man I love out of my head? (Part 2)

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July 01, 2009

This is a continuation to my story. so i called his hous to surprise him, and to my surprise, his wife answered the phone. i asked for him, and she started arguing with him as her hand was over the phone.lol i waited patiently, and he never picked up, so i hung up. later in the day i confronted him on his cell phone, asked him what was going on. he admited he was married, but it was complicated. omg! my heart just fell to the ground. he tried to convince me he was seperated, living in the same house, but seperate bedrooms for the daughters sake. so i tried to beleive him. we met a few times after that again made love, but he still never called me , only emails, when he could meet , but for sex basically. again telling me i was what he wanted, that he saw plans for the future, he was selling his house , getting divorced, going threw mediation ect. it would take a while befor everything would be done with , and we could be together. so i patiently waited. in a 14 months we slept have seen eachother 3 times,slept together 2 times. i decided to ask him if we could actually start going out on real dates, i would travel to him, he made excuses every time, fianlly he just ups and sends me an email saying, he has too much on his plate, and there just isnt any room on it for me, his life was too complicated, and that he used me, his boss recomended he blow off some steam and have a fling. which i dont beleive, but hey , i guess men will say anything to make themselves look better. he admited that he used me, he was still married,and that it was poor judgement on his part. also said that he didnt think we could stay friends, it was too complicated. he still says he is getting divorced and moving out into his own place, and sent me numerous photos of himself and his daughter. but yet does not want me in his life anymore. i am confused, and dont know what to do , i have fallen in love with this lying man. :(

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Wannaknow says:

OMG...this like a story in my life. same exact thing; expect i didn't meet my Jackass online i met him at my gym. he had been flirting with me for 3 years (in person; by phone and texting and emailing) once the flirtation got on a very sexual level i asked him who he lived with...he told me HIS WIFE!! I was very shocked. i didn't understand why for 3 years he led me on. so i asked him why did he feel the need to flirt with me if he was married..he said he didn't want me to stop talking to him. THAT WAS MY Q to leave that jackass alone. but he resumed with the flirtation..i don't know why i did not stop but i went along with it. soon after he came over to my place..(we did things). i just thought it was a fling. i never had any real feelings for him at this time..but things moved quickly and after few months of seeing each other things began to move quickly. feelings were developing at the same time the lies began..he told me he loved me, he wanted to be with me, he did not love his wife, he was gonna move out, talking about his wife could not have kids and that he wanted kids, he told me he is most happy when he's with me and so on ...once i saw it was all lies i pushed him away. he called me few month later to tell me he had move to his mother's place...only to go back to his wife who he said he did not love few weeks later. telling he made a mistake, and that he was using me to make himself feel better, and that i should move on. I'll admit now i fell in love with him along the way but now all i have is HATE for him. I deserve SO much better than a jackass like that. but i guess i had to go through it to know that i will never ever make the same mistake. your heart may be broken now but trust me it will heal. keep yourself busy. dont waste your time thinking about a guy that cannot give you his all. he is not worth it. it will take time but you will get over the pain...just know there is someone better for you. best wishes

Roma says:

Simply, you deserve better. Stay distracted, call & see your friends, and take care of yourself (exercise, hobbies). Find someone who can be with you in every way. Remind yourself that you are worth more than that. He would do this to you, if he did this to his wife, so you don't want him. He's bad news.

Anna says:

I am sorry about your situation i hope you find a man who will love you like crazy !!!!!!!!!!!

Anna says:

I am sorry about your situation i hope you find a man who will you love like crazy !!!!!!!!!!!