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What should I do about this boy I like?
Posted by: Naytash on June 29, 2009

Kay, so like i'm not in my twenties or anything... I'm 11, and i like this boy. I'm not like the other girls who have a boyfriend when they are young like me, i prefer to wait till im 15 or something. He is very nice 2 me, and always makes me laugh even though if the joke isn't funny. He is 4 years older then me and he has a message on his shoe from a girl called Flo and it says her name (flo ♥ XoXo) What is that suppose 2 mean? Does he haff a gf? I dunno he's sending me mixed signals. Like he likes me then i see the note, idk what to do? HELP! -Natasha
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Ellyfifiey says:
I had my first BF when i was 11 years old like u but my BF was 13years, he was ma crush since i was 9 years, one time he sent ma best friend to tell me that he had a crush on me, because i had a big crush on him for so long, i just said yes and we started dating from there but after 3months i found out that he had another girl friend from the same school in the same class he was studying in! oh lord i didn't run crazy neither to cry may be because i was still so young, but i just asked him about that girl in a plight way and he told me the truth like that gal was his first GF but he wants to end the relationship with that gal just because she was 3years older than him, but he didn't know how to end it, yet he wanna be with me, i stayed strong and told him if he doesn't end that relationship with that girl am out of the game, and i spent 2 weeks with out talking to him, then he decided to go and tell the other gal the truth that he got new GF and she has to for get all about him, and from there their relationship ended we spent 8years together in great love and trusting each other, until we separated because of long distance but still we are best friends. so if u truly love the guy go for him don't let Flo take him away from you, just be strong like a really girl, ask him in a plight way like who is Flo? if he loves u his gonna tell u the truth. Good luck.

Bec_harts says:
Wow 4 years older? that makes him 15!lol well thats beside the point! just becoz this flo girl (lol i have a friend called flo) decided to write her name on his shoe doesnt actually mean anyting!maybe he does like her, but that doesnt stop him from liking u! havent u ever liked two ppl at the same time!? i like two brothers! and its intensly confusing! i might not know a lot about relashionships (im going to be 14 in less then a month and i still havent had a bf!), but im pretty sure about this! good luck and maybe u can try to ask him who flo is!

Tennisace70 says:
At that age it doesn't mean he has a girlfriend. It's just one of those things that young girls do. I think you should be more worried about the Flo girl rather than this boy. It seems like maybe she likes him as well, and maybe she knows that you do too, and she's trying to persuade him to like her. But if he really likes you, then he will ignore whatever she does to make him likes her back. So i think you should just wait and see, and if it still bugs you, then talk to him about it.



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