Dating a married man
Posted by: Sandie on
July 17, 2007
What do you do when you fall in love with a married man? How do you get over the break up? I find it harder to get over this relationship than when i was dating a single man. First of all he told me he was seperated and thats why I got involed... and we dated when we were in our teens... now we are in our 40s... he still want to keep seeing me... when I found out he was still married I dumped him.I need help getting over this!
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Johnny LaRue says:
You wouldn't be the first woman to date a married man. If you love him, what, you're just going to shut off your feelings? "Cheating" is such a bad word to describe this scenario. Maybe we're not meant to be monogamous...? Lots of men and women look for relationships outside their own, but what you have to ask yourself Sandie is, when the wife is gone, will your relationship still function, or does it function strictly as a result because it's clandestine and exhilarating? Is a successful relationship one that ends with "till death do us part"? or does it matter if it lasts a day, a year, a decade...as long as you're content at the time, then keep at it, otherwise, if you're unhappy, then there's no need to subject yourself to this...move on then.
Unknown says:
Dating a married man is definitly a NO NO, seperated does not mean divorced, run and never look back,or it will cost you big time in the end. you are wasting your precious, valua ble time of finding true happyness. good luck.
Eric72 says:
This is simple, but not necessarily easy...dump him! He's cheating on his wife, which makes him dishonest. How long do you think it would be for him to be the same with you. So not only do you chance being hurt by this deceitful person, but you would also be considered the woman who ruined a family. Stay away from married men. It's far more trouble than it's worth. Even if you feel the way you do. In the end, no matter how it plays out, it will be hard to deal with. But you need to ask yourself, "can I live with myself knowing I wrecked a family, and leaving the children with a broken home. All because I want to satisfy my own desires".
SpellChecker says:
I don't get what you're saying Holly - you might want to proofread next time :)
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