How can I cope with my In-Laws treating my husband badly?
Posted by: Sue on
July 15, 2007
I have tried everything with my Husband's family, all they do is treat him badly, talk down to him and he can't see it for what it really is. How do you get along with a family like this?We have been married now for over 10yrs, it hasn't changed. He has voiced how he feels when they treat him like they do, because I have pointed things out to him,and nothing nice is said in return to him. They won't even listen to him if he has a problem.What can we both do to make this stop.Enough is enough already!I don't know why he would want anything to do with them, even though they are the only parents he has.
Please help!
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K says:
I am in the somewhat in the same boat. It is hard to watch someone you love be treated that way, but I agree with Anonymous that the best you can do is be a person in his life that does love him the way he deserves to be loved - someone who does listen when he has a problem and doesn't talk down to him. Ultimately, whether and to what extent he wants to have contact with his family should be up to him (if you force the issue, I am afraid it will only breed resentment). I think you should let him know that you support whatever he decides while encouraging him to stand up for himself - unfortunately, it is unlikely things will change if he doesn't. Good luck.
I have tried everything with my Husband's family, all they do is treat him badly, talk down to him and he can't see it for what it really is. How do you get along with a family like this?We have been married now for over 10yrs, it hasn't changed. He has voiced how he feels when they treat him like they do, because I have pointed things out to him,and nothing nice is said in return to him. They won't even listen to him if he has a problem.What can we both do to make this stop.Enough is enough already!I don't know why he would want anything to do with them, even though they are the only parents he has. Please help!
K says:
I am in the somewhat in the same boat. It is hard to watch someone you love be treated that way, but I agree with Anonymous that the best you can do is be a person in his life that does love him the way he deserves to be loved - someone who does listen when he has a problem and doesn't talk down to him. Ultimately, whether and to what extent he wants to have contact with his family should be up to him (if you force the issue, I am afraid it will only breed resentment). I think you should let him know that you support whatever he decides while encouraging him to stand up for himself - unfortunately, it is unlikely things will change if he doesn't. Good luck.
I have tried everything with my Husband's family, all they do is treat him badly, talk down to him and he can't see it for what it really is. How do you get along with a family like this?We have been married now for over 10yrs, it hasn't changed. He has voiced how he feels when they treat him like they do, because I have pointed things out to him,and nothing nice is said in return to him. They won't even listen to him if he has a problem.What can we both do to make this stop.Enough is enough already!I don't know why he would want anything to do with them, even though they are the only parents he has. Please help!
Anonymous says:
You can't change his family or the fact that he stays in contact with them. All you can do is make sure he knows he is loved by you.
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