Bartering

A little “give and take” is all a part of the game.  You give a little and you get a little.  Offer her something like a massage to soothe her.  A massage is an amazing way to get your girl to relax and feel good about being with you.  Pampering will leave her feeling very generous and in a fantastic mood. 

The real kicker here is that you offer her the massage after the blow job.  This is called bartering.  You want something to help you relax and she wants something to help her relax.  She gives you oral sex and you give her a massage, or a manicure, or a scented bath with flower petals and lots of bubbles!

Go Down on Her

Similar to the previous suggestion, you need to go down on her.  It is only fair and it makes for some fun times! If you go down on her, she’d feel that she should give you a shot…in her mouth!  Joking aside, you cannot possibly expect her to go down on you if you are not willing to return the favour.  You just become the jerk who takes advantage of a girl in all the wrong ways. 

Eventually, karma will catch up on you and you will receive no more blow jobs.  Be an equal partner in and out of the bedroom and karma will catch up on you, in a good way.  If you are really worried about the possibility of receiving oral sex from her, make it a game.  Use a coin and see who gets a good licking first!

Just Ask

This is very simple.  Look her earnestly in the eyes, hold her hand, maybe even cuddle, and say, “Darling, I would like a blow job from you.”  Say this with a straight face and she will either play along and suck you off or laugh in your face and suck you off.  Either way, you get rewarded with a little more oral pleasure for your honesty and bravery. Being direct helps clear up what the issue is and exposes your needs in this relationship.  This way you are not beating around the bush; maybe you might even get in the bush!

Some people might dismiss oral sex as just another perverted way to get off, but it is a very intimate and important part of a relationship.  It is not something that you should feel obligated to do but want to do and receive. You and your partner’s stance on oral sex is kind of like a signal that lets you know the dynamics of your relationship. You and your partner want to be happy, so be playful and generous together and have fun with your mouths!