Boldness

Women like men for a reason:  because we’re masculine, though being masculine in this case has nothing to do with crushing back beers and watching sports.  Nor does it have anything to do with muscles, facial hair or deep vocal cords.  When women think boldness, they think wit, charm, confidence, generosity, strength of character and spontaneity.

They love it when you hug them from behind and whisper in their ear, kissing them and nibbling them for no reason.  It’s bold.  It’s exciting.  It’s daring.  And it has nothing to do with being a so-called bad boy.  Boldness is easily achievable simply by paying attention to their needs and being forthright in addressing them.

Women also want you to be decisive.  They want you to take the lead.  They want boldness in the way you smile, in the way you make eye contact with them.  They want to see intent.  Now does any of this seem unreasonable?  Didn’t think so.

What She Wants She Should Get

These are all basic things that are universally wanted, needed and accepted by women, and things all women need more of; more softness, more openness and more boldness.  Lots of men start out relationships by providing these things, but eventually their efforts fade in a raging fit of complacency.  They forget.  They stop paying attention.  Get too comfortable.  But even worse is that most men never do any of these things enough or at all—relationship or no relationship.

Women deserve more.

Tell Tyler what you think women want at fshg51@hotmail.com.