Is E-Dumping Hard to Do?By Audley Stephenson [Dating]
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 They’re DisrespectfulE-dumpers are often described as being rude and impolite individuals who don’t even have the courtesy to speak with their partner in person. They take total control of the situation by removing all the non-verbal elements of face-to-face communication from the equation. These actions demonstrate that they are not committed to communicating effectively. They’re Cowardly Driven by fear, some people love the concept of e-dumping because it gives them a shortcut to dealing with the emotions of the other person. They also can be classified as ‘runners’ who attempt to escape situations they perceive as being confrontational. Runners usually have difficulty maintaining healthy relationships because of their inability to demonstrate healthy communication skills. They’re Immature Mature adults are supposed to talk about their problems and work through issues in a manner that allows both sides to have equal input. This is at least the expectation of many who have been e-dumped. A person who hasn’t fully developed from a mental and emotional standpoint may choose to end relationships on an impulse rather than try to work out their issues. ______________________ in closing If you’ve been dumped in this fashion before, then you have a pretty good idea of how it feels to receive such a message and some or all of those feelings would apply. Unwritten rules of email etiquette state that certain personal messages shouldn’t be sent electronically and should be done face-to-face instead. Expect e-dumping occurrences to increase as the popularity of online dating continues. It just makes sense that relationships end the same place they started. This all makes me wonder if Neil Sedaka would have still thought breaking up would be hard to do if he had email? Check out Audley's blog at alwaysmakeyourmark.blogspot.com. |
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