While shopping with two friends one day for winter coats, it dawned on me that there are many similarities between searching for the perfect outerwear and searching for the perfect partner.

The coat-hunting process itself was more complex than I had initially anticipated.  Several variables needed to be considered, such as length, thickness, colour, fit and care.  And, just as in dating, many variables must be considered.

Try on Many Coats

Slow down, sister!  Don't go for the first coat you see.  Have fun and enjoy the seemingly endless possibilities.  Make sure you've thought long and hard before making your final purchase.

This principle also applies to selecting a long-term relationship.  These days, many women delay marriage because of the wonderful options of career, travel, friends and robust dating pools.  Have fun!  Meet men!  Date, for Pete's (or Julian's, or Mike's, or Chris') sake!
      
Shop in Unusual Places

Sometimes the best coats were hanging in the most unexpected of shops.  It was a pleasant surprise, and they appeared to be in abundance.  The same goes for relationships.

Sometimes you meet the best men in places you never ever expected them to be.  Feel free to wander outside your normal dating boundaries.