So, you've been together for a while and he finally pops the big
question. Congratulations! You are about to embark on the most, exciting and riskiest adventure you can imagine.

Before you decide to make this huge commitment, think beyond the showers, parties, well wishers and how spectacular your left hand looks with a diamond.

Consider what the rest of your life will be like with the person you have selected to spend it with. In my personal experience, the following important factors should be considered very closely. Several touchstones of your potential mate's personality and values will give good indications of whether or not you two are compatible.

Deal Breakers

Everyone has their own list of qualities that under no circumstances will be tolerated – especially in a husband. For example, you shouldn't consider marriage with your current flame if there's been any type of abuse within the relationship, if he's addicted to alcohol or drugs, if he's an obsessive gambler – you get the idea. 

Every one of us probably has our own list of deal breakers, so take the time to identify yours and always keep them in mind.

His Friends

Your potential husband's friends are good examples of the type of people he identifies with. Take a good look at his friends. What are their personalities like? Do you like them? Do they share your values? Would you befriend them? If you answered no to any of these questions, take a closer look.

Decide what it is about your mate's friends that you dislike and ask yourself whether your mate might exhibit these qualities too. Discuss any misgivings you have with him or her. Part of marriage is accepting things you can't change, so if there is something that bothers you about your mate's friends, decide whether it's something you can bear to live with.